The reality …

Your obstetrican will come in and check you sometime after you’ve been admitted to the birth unit in your hospital and then come back for the delivery of your baby.

There are two things you need to know …

• Between these visits you will still have to breath and you will have another contraction … so what are you going to do about it? Don’t expect your obstetrician to breath for you or with you. LEARN HOW TO BREATH WELL.

• Staff CNMs or obstetrical nurses will periodically come in a do whatvever childbirth assessments are necessary … you still have to breath and you will have another contraction. Don’t expect staff CNMs or obstetrical nurses to do the labour for you. LEARN HOW TO RELAX.
  

If 'they' won't do birth for you, what's left? ... You and your birth coach have the task of working together during all your labour contractions.

So go into your hospital birth with these skills:

• Breathing AND
• Relaxation techniques
  

And these equally important birth skills:

• How to work as a team with your birth partner.
• How to work along side your obstetrician’s care as well as the staff CNMs and obstetrical nurses when they do childbirth assessments, monitoring and procedures.
  

And don't forget these valuable childbirth skills:

• Learn how to stay open inside your pelvis.
• Discover the secret of coping with labour pain.
• Prepare your birth canal to prevent birth trauma.

Your obstetrician wants you and your partner to have a positive and safe birth.

Obstetricians want couples to work together well in childbirth particularly once the birth contractions get more painful. Obstetricians don’t want to see you suffer and they know that childbirth can be painful BUT they will never stop you from managing your painful contractions well.

'Our doctor loved that we didn’t need any pain relief. She said to us .If you need something you can have it, but it’s always better for your baby if you can handle labour pains without pain relief.'
Ramona and Juan G…

'I do recommend to my patients that they learn how to breath and relax during labour. I’ve seen some wonderful births with couples who have used The Pink Kit resources. I fact I used them myself for both my births.' 
Dr. Fran B ….

The Pink Kit Package contains childbirth skills, childbirth skills and Childbirth Skills that fit well inside the care you receive from your obstetrician.

Your obstetrician will leave you in the capable hands of your hospital midwives/obstetrical nurses who absolutely love seeing birthing women cope well with labour pain and adore fathers who are great birth coaches.

Every positive birth leaves new parents with these wonderful feelings ...  particularly when you use your birth skills to the max. You know ...

• You’ve done a great job!
• Coped with the birth pains really well!
• Your birth coach has truly helped you throughout birth particularly during the most painful contractions of childbirth!
  
• Your baby has come out of your birthing body without damage to YOUR body and is safe in your arms!
  
• You will recover amazingly quickly!
• You've totally impressed your doctor, midwife,friends and relatives!
  
• Be ready to move into your parenting role without unfinished birth business!